I guess i should always be like this and not care. He thinks you're not interested in him. Do they prejudge a guy the very minute he approaches them and reject him outright? So, I asked for a second one and she said yes. After a while I stopped texting her and we hadnt spoken in months but now every month or so Ill text her well have a good conversation especially recently she will reply back with a paragraph or send 3 or 4 messages back to one of my text andRead more , Hey Wesley, I dont know everything about your situation. Watch the reddit nice guys videos on YouTube. Should I just never text her first then? You shouldnt be making reservations at places for girls at all unless youre already fucking them for a while and theyre very feminine / if theyre a girlfriend. Have a night in where youRead more , Hey man back again in need of your advice. She can sense that youre looking at her texts and that is showing her you are worried / care too much. Reasons Why Your Girlfriend Doesn't Respond Or Text You Back. I always text her first. But if the meeting place and time was uncertain she could have asked or confirmed it if she was interested.. but she didnt. Friend: Cool which? It seems like youre theRead more , So in an unexpected turn of events she opened up about what she feels and what she wants from me in the relationship and the best thing is she brought it up all on her own in casual conversation, i didnt have to push for it. But you found out valuable info. Youve given her all the comfort and have put her on a pedestal. And she hits you up to confirm then her interest is high enough that you will have aRead more , No I just told her this weekend we should meet.. It may seem like a small thing, but its a sign of the bigger issue. If she has to deal with a lot of pressure from work, a competitive work environment, and even the burden of being a goal-getter, you may have to come to terms with the fact that she may not always be available to text you. uniiversity love is love inm clouds.once sunlight breaks all the clouds breaks off and u will fall down on ground with broken bones. If you have been texting with someone or if you have been dating a man for some time now, when he calls you baby for the first time, it means that he wants something more serious. So, don't overthink why she never initiates text though I know you'll feel good if sometimes a text comes from her side. Its fine if you initiate physical contact for sex. In fact if you dont respond, and you keep posting Instagram stories, shell probably hit you up in a few weeks. Thanks for the reply rebel! Because thats free attention. If I was you Id still continue on your path. you are very good <3 This is a big mistake that a lot of guys make. Is this a girl youve been fucking and then things fell off, a girl you just met, an ex gf, a girl youve been talking to etc. He always calls me by my name. But i guess this is normal behaviour for most people. Id just move on and wouldnt bother with it. It wouldve been better for you to withdraw your attention, and have her use sex to get your attention back. As time proceeds, the narrative that she never texts first will begin to change. Be confident and respond with something witty or just ask her to hang. Its very possible she never texts you first or wants to hang. So its been 5 months now since we started dating. She isnt interested in you, just keeps you for extra attention. She didnt even message me for past 2 days ! If you lead a fun life, post and get off, and dont think about her, shell most likely hit you up sooner or later. Then you could make plans without having to double text. Shell hit you up if you leave her alone. We had our second date this Wednesday because she spent last week away for work. This website uses cookies so that we can provide you with the best user experience possible. Her eyes weren't straight. Does she have many options? 8. There are times when someone might avoid using your name. You also made the mistake of giving her presents on a 2nd date, shes not even your girlfriend. Another reason why she may not text you first is that there may be other people in the picture. Well I think you are right the more you chase the more she will pull away. Which I love, don't get me wrong, it sounds nice when he says it, and I never call him anything but his name, either. Could be a variety reasons, but whether its her natural personality or shes just trying to make you chase, shell start acting more feminine once she sees your maintain your masculinity. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Even then Id only do that for a relationship. Her interest is just too low right now, you need to stop asking her out. You started off strong but since have become a little bit weaker. If she has many other men vying for her attention, chances that she may be able to keep up with all of you may be slim. Where you couldve done better is when she texted you sunday to play it by ear. You have the knowledge to know the signs a girl likes you which is great. Because they dont just want your attention in the form of text. Please reply I would really appreciate it So ive been doing what you told me and shes pretty affectionate with me and things are going well except for one thing thats been bothering me for a while;This started about a month and a half ago when i took the only picture we have together for the entire 3 months we been dating and thats only because i insisted on it and took it with my phone, at the time it seemed weird that she didnt want a picture of us together and she just said she doesnt really like takingRead more , Nice job on following the advice and getting the results! We made out in the restaurant all throughout the date; in some instances she even forgot what we were talking about before the kisses. We met through family friends. Youre lying to yourself and her. She is really engaging though, ask really deep questions, answers with lengthy detailed responses and opens up a lot about herself. This may not be what you want to hear, but you need to consider the possibility that the reason she hardly texts you first is that she has a lot going on in her life at the same time. Now she is coming up on the end of herRead more , Hey man, I get you like the girl. Just say see you tonight. You just blow him up in her head everytime you mention his name. The women who are for you will also text you first. If she has made it clear that she isnt interested in a relationship with you. Maybe she liked the conversation, but you shouldve been trying to meet up, you kinda friendzoned yourself in a way by just talking over text forever. But dont worry bro, this is normal. Even when she got sick and went dark on me, I waited and eventually she followed up. Thanks for the reply that never even crossed my mine and i see what you mean so fall back on the messages try something in person if not take my business elsewhere? 9. If youre the beta then you need her. Your girlfriend needs space. I want to give her the benefit of the doubt that shes a bad texter? Do which she just acknowledged by saying Done done! Now that youve shown discipline and self respect, better will come. But for now just try flirting with her in person. Earlier that day I told her I was going to be busy with my friends that night, and when she was texting me throughout the evening I was taking a while to reply and she was being dry. Basically you projected that you had a masculine frame, she shit tested you, and you failed like a beta. These are the types of statements I get from guys who want me to evaluate their situation. You could still text her but itd be better to wait it out, if she likes you shell hit you up eventually. I know you dont want to hear it, but its also possible in your case that she doesnt like talking to you. Shell ruin your game with other women if shes in the same social circle. Tell her in the beginning of the call that you have to get off in ten minutes but you wish you didn't. Cherish a woman who showers you with love, trust me man, the opposite is horrible. Im really confused about this girl . If she never texts first and finds it difficult to return your texts even when you do, it could be a clear sign that she isnt interested in pursuing a relationship with you. If she hangs out with an ex, then you can dump her. But youre way too invested in a girl who you havent smashed yet. You pulled back which was good, but then texted her again after it took her 4 days. But let her text you first the next time at least. Hi There Very good post and helps many Im sure. Rebel Jays article really covered in detail the exact situation and resulting issues and feelings that Ive been dealing with. They may not be consciously aware of this pattern. She does sometimes but not often. Thats why she responded like she did. Sorry for long msg, but if someone could read/possibly help out, that would be amazing. That way shell know youre serious and will respect you. Nothing forces her not to call you because love demands communication. For you Id say ignore. Since its was almost for the 6th time we couldnt meet up .. IAM thinking to ask her out again but this Time Ill make solid plans and tell her.. Should I make a move or let her reach out to me.. Yea, do not tell her to text you more. "Guys are the pursuers," she explains, a fact that I concede to be true for masculine-energy men, "so . Give her room to text you. We met at this job interview thing about a month ago and I havent met with her since. Should i just step back and not make any more plans with her or text her until hopefully shes takes the initiative to hang out together? No. Text her back a few times within a day and keep her wanting your attention. Please take a chill pill if you are in this place because you are not weird. The problem is that she sent it to few others in her snapchat list aswell. even she test you and succeed but she will not love u as u imagined unless u r a top ranker in class, has some rich family. I would say though iam making mistake but with every mistake iam learning.. Make yourself a more valuable man. You want her to see you as this nice guy that doesnt just want to fuck. shes been texting to me for two days Hey i need your advice once again. Then if she gives me a day/night or keeps it general I suggest a specific date. Ok I totally agree with that. You cant force the issue. Naturally some girls are more affectionate than others. You put her on a pedestal. We ended up going out to dinner a couple weeks ago (to which I thought was just as friends) and at the end she said thanks for the date. If you dont have your girls attention, she will not contact you. 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